Conversations Matter when telling a child about a suicide

There has been a death by suicide and I need to inform a child.
What do I say? What do I do?

Telling a child about a suicide

When a child needs to be informed of a death, it can be difficult to know what to say and how to explain it. A first response may be to say nothing or avoid the conversation, but children can realise that something is happening around them.

This resource provides some basic tips for telling a child about a suicide. It is designed specifically for parents or primary care-givers but the information may be useful for other adults.

You can watch it as an online presentation or download it as a printed fact sheet or audio podcast by using the links below.

Conversations Matter when telling a child about a suicide

Supporting links

Services and supports

  • Kids Helpline
    Free confidential 24-hour telephone and online counselling service specifically for young
    people aged 5 to 25 years - 1800 55 1800.
    Websites offering information, stories, online activities and online counselling:
    For kids:  
    For teenagers and young adults:  


  • Lifeline
    A 24-hour national telephone crisis counselling service – 13 11 14
    Online counselling service, further information and service finder –  


  • Suicide Call Back Service
    24-hour national telephone counselling service to people 18 years and over who are suicidal or bereaved by suicide - 1300 659 467
    Online counselling service, grief and loss program and resources about bereavement -     


  • StandBy - Support after Suicide 
    24-hour coordinated community response service to families, friends and communities who have been bereaved through suicide –   


Other useful resources


  • Australian Centre for Grief and Bereavement - The largest provider of grief and bereavement education in Australia


For a more comprehensive list of services and resources, refer to the Supporting Information section of the website

To hear Amy Visser, Senior Project Officer at Everymind, give a brief overview of how to talk to a child about suicide, you can stream or download the podcast below, courtesy of the Community Broadcasting Association of Australia: 

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The Conversations Matter resources have been developed by Everymind. The roll-out of the project across NSW is being supported by the NSW Mental Health Commission.

The resources have been developed based on a set of core principles. These principles were developed as the result of a review of research evidence and thematic analysis of current programs and approaches, extensive sector consultation across educational, workplace, family and community settings, as well as identified target group community consultations and consultations with Aboriginal communities.

The core principles were then subject to review by three panels of experts in suicide prevention working across various settings and with various target populations.

For a list of specific references for this resource, click here: 

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